When you spot a girl, usually tall and she also has small waist, small hip, small bust, small thigh and other small things, she always be considered as skinny and everyone will start to complain and tell her that she should gain some weight eventhough she herself does not want to. She should not exercise. She should eat more.

Now, take a look at the definition first. The ideal weight for everyone is when the calculation for Body Mass Index is 20, and below that number you are considered as skinny. But why do people keep complaining to them directly and keep telling them that they should gain weight? On the contrary, we hardly ever see people complain to those with Body Mass Index above 20 and tell them, “Oh you are too fat and you should lose some weight,” or, “you are not allowed to eat that,” or “you are too fatty, you REALLY should exercise.” Don’t you think that there is a little discrimination here? That skinny people are often complained and complained and again and again while the inverse are not! Now again, What’s so wrong in being skinny?

Firstly, they are just another ordinary group of people that ONLY have the BMI under 20! You cannot just discriminate them by pushing them over and over and over again to eat or remind them, “have you eaten?” or moreover YOU ASK THEM WHAT THEY HAVE EATEN. And if they answer, “I ate a loaf of bread today,” people will tell them that they should eat a plate of rice or more. Therefore, bread itself contains eggs, butter, and flour that actually consists lots of calories up to 200-300 calories and it is almost equal to a regular plate of rice.

Secondly, being healthy does not equal to having BMI 20. BMI 20 only an ideal weight. Not weight that is considered healthy. Having a healthy body means inside and out. You love yourself, you love your body, you love people around you, you have your passion to do is a way to live a good life that mean you have a healthy mind and soul. Furthermore, having a healthy body means you are not in any medication, or you suffer in certain diseases, eat regularly fruits and organic food that contains a lot of vitamins, minerals, and less fat that can clog your veins lead you to heart diseases, stroke, and high cholesterol.

Thirdly, without being hyprocrite, everybody mostly women want their body as skinny as they can get. Even girls that considered as ideal already they also want to lose some weights. And if there is this skinny girl is already skinny, why should you tell her that she should gain some weight while the whole other people want to have a skinny body? Just let the girl lives as what she wants to live! The main important thing in this life is to prolong your life, how can you do that? By living healthily ever after! Ladies and gentlemen, you do not really know what this skinny girl has eaten to live up her day. And being healthy does not mean to eat more. Just.. let them live the way they want, it’s up to them whether those skinny girls want to eat healthy or unhealthy food. That’s their choice. And also it’s everyone’s choice including people with BMI equal or above 20.

Fourthly, the unique advantage of being skinny girl is you can put on every dresses. From the ordinary ones in the market, mall, stores till the luxury and branded ones like Bottega Veneta, Dior, Chanel, and Marc Jacobs. Most of the dresses are small, and only can be looked so nicely to those girls with for example, small legs, small hips, and small arms. And this is the case that you keep telling those skinny girls to gain some weight? Until what BMI? 20? 21? 25? 26? In what purpose if she just keep eating and eating without considering the nutrition inside?

So ladies and gentlemen, from the first point until the fourth argument, I want to stress that there is nothing wrong of being skinny and so please just stop telling them to gain some weight and let them live and let them choose to be healthy or not.

Thank you.

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At the only shades of moonlight that slightly slipped through the curtains into the room, I could still see your face. You looked so deep in your sleep, flying away with little cupids and angels. I could not move my hands and legs. They were stuck in your warm hug. I was wondering when the sun would come out when I heard birds chirped. A sign that it was almost dawn. It was a few minutes after I opened my eyes and I still could not believe there was my love next to me. I could feel your constant deep breath. You were drowned into your sleep. I turned a slight smile and touched your pretty face. The eyes that used to open now closed. A pair of very beautiful eyes that speaks and charms a lady like me.

I did not want to miss a single glance. We were so close and so fine together. Our lips tangled together. You took your arm around my waist and lovingly hugged, under a silent eye-witness blanket. Only if it could talk, it would tell all the love story that we made. Only if it could hear, it would play all the whispers you smoothly said in my ear.

Every single inch in this room witnessed and noticed, how innocent you look when you sleep.
I miss you.
Inosensius Lapidus Chandra.
Xoxo.

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Happy Birthday, Irene!
My greatest and loveliest friends gave me surprise that they asked me at the midnight to come along to Benton Junction and there was Fred, Maria, Ivana. And Kenneth, Fandy, Rendy. I waited for an hour then till midnight to my day, there was a light at my right and a bunch of familiar people. They were also my friends that brought a cake with sparkling candlelights on it. And they sang happy birthday to me..

I shout my wish to be a smart girl, smarter, and smarter…

Then my wish is answered today. So what happened? I am tested. I am stumbled upon a debating club in my university. I never thought that I would join this club. Why? This is not my passion or my expertise. But honestly to become an expertise you need training? I am such a dumb girl when the coach Erry told us to get paired. I am with Ivana became the government side, the opening. It was extremely deliberately unconditionally unquestionably AWFUL. I was so bad that I wanted to runaway My left brain was like pushed by something hard. I know it wouldn’t be excuses but really, I am those people that belong to artists. Not intellectuals.

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I got this Q&A from my superfabulous friend, Laras Permata I think it is cool as a post!

What is your current obsession?
Stretch up calves, humstrings, and other muscles in my legs. I start doing ballet.

What is your weirdest obsession?
Being a pilot.

What’s for dinner today?
Strawberry milk juice is enough for me, and some addition of tuna bread.

Why is today special?
Because I will dye my hair black and continue stretching with my new Yoga Mat!

What would you like to learn to do?
Reading people’s mind? Haha, no. Parasailing.

What’s the last thing you bought?
Stick-hungers for my cupboard to hang accessories.

What are you listening to right now?
Computer’s fan? It does make noise.

What is your favorite weather?
An autumn breeze.

What is your most challenging goal right now?
Be the first face for Jean Paul Gaultier’s Fashion show.

What do you think about the person who tagged you?
Fashionable, timeless, unique, supercreative

If you could have a house totally paid for fully furnished anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?
Kemayoran, my place. Hehehehe.

What would you like to have in your hands right now?
Photoshoot offerings for branded fashion lines and make ups. Whoop.

What would you like to get rid of?
My sense of guiltiness over everything.

If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?
Barcelona. With a professional photographer.

Which language do you want to learn?
Latin.

What do you look for in a friend?
Comfort

Who do you want to meet in person?
Taylor Swift.

What’s your favorite type of music?
Any music that is come out from soul.

What’s the favorite piece of clothing in your own closet?
My super knee-length black skirt.

What is your dream job?
Run a well-known Modeling and Acting School.

Any favorite models?
Alessandra Ambrosio, she has the face and the set of eyes and eyebrows like me.

If you had $100 now what would you spend it on?
Buy fragrances for my condominium.

Favorite designer?
I adore Coco Chanel timeless style.

Do you admire anyone’s style?
Laras Permata, my own inspirational friend

Describe your personal style
Get dressed for success.

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I wanna shout. I wanna scream. I wanna ask loudly.

Why do I keep falling.. for a man?

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